Cavalier's Recommended Reading List

BOOKS

The Loving Dominant

by John Warren, PH.D.

An excellent book that has much to offer

regardless of your experience in the lifestyle.

Different Loving  

The World of Sexual Dominance & Submission 

by Gloria G. Brame, William D. Brame, and Jon Jacobs

Not a “how to” book. This is an excellent study into the

“why” of the lifestyle based on over one hundred of interviews.

The Multi-Orgasmic Man  

How Any Man Can Experience Multiple Orgasms

And Dramatically Enhance His Sexual Relationship 

by Mantak Chia & Douglas Abrams Arava

This is THE handbook for not only how a man’s body

functions sexually (and yes, male multiple orgasms

are possible!!!) but how a woman’s body functions

sexually and how to make love to a woman like

she has never been made love to before!

Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns  

The Romance And Sexual

Sorcery Of Sadomasochism

by Philip Miller and Molly Devon

A totally delightful and humorous book that

encompasses not only the “how to” of the

lifestyle but much of the “why” as well.

A Hand In The Bush  

The Fine Art Of Vaginal Fisting 

by Deborah Addington

A marvelously in depth text. Definitely a must read for

anyone interested in fisting. I had the pleasure of

attending a fisting seminar presented by Ms. Addington

and her partner. (Hence my autographed copy of her

book!!!) It was an amazing, almost spiritual experience.

Polyamory
The New Love Without Limits  

Secrets Of Sustainable Intimate Relationships 

by Dr. Deborah M. Anapol

Don’t let the title fool you, while this is certainly a

book that should be read before one delves into

multi-partner relationships, its potential to improve

single-partner relationships can’t be overstated.